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1, I am 28, young parents have witnessed the unfortunate love life, so I do not believe in love, do not trust people, and therefore almost never been in love. I'm 27, the occasional high school students wind, he wants to chase me I adamantly refused him. rejected him after I found that I actually like him, because of the face, can only silently in their hearts like. Six months later he gives us a matchmaker, and we started dating, about January, my parents are so familiar that students, wanted to see the wind, I ask him, he is no longer for me. Two weeks later he sent me a text message: wind, dust and disturbance, the former but not Road, lost and had to return. do not pick me telephone, did not return messages. until now I do not know what happened. In fact, a girlfriend, original style, because the family did not know where I heard his family has a genetic disease, to oppose them (the wind that is only hearsay), then had to break up. I think he every day, because it is pain, I want to come out themselves, how can can not do, how can I do?
no reason to give up is up. man gives a woman is only one possible: No love. so you do not give excuses of his tether, not to forgive him. from the day after tomorrow Heights, do not look back. temporarily forget, then remember the first. my heart to bear in mind the fact that he leave you.
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2, whether the old people, more and more dedicated to love a person can not go? love is not looking for young men, old men should not be looking for?
people too lazy to age the greater the pay, because he know to pay more in the emotional, not necessarily the desired results. That being so, the old guys to take the initiative to destroy his own desires, and you love him again it is difficult to shake him lazy and passive. want to love in full swing , or should the young man points to the old man only for the spirit of seeking refuge. that is, knowing that he is not taking no warm and sincere, we do not care, we just we want a part, such as his wisdom to his stable of his considerate.
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3, extra-marital affairs, a man that the woman said: ? all the time, because he can not be ignored for a ton of meals for supper.
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4, I'm 29, my husband than I was 5 years old, married for two years. baby in February. got married he lived , now take care of the baby and her in-laws live together. before and in-laws do not feel how hard to get along, because it is only to go back every weekend to eat a meal. but now slowly emerging conflicts. more education is how to take care of the baby and not happy. they the old way with children, sometimes say something to upset them, especially the father, because he did not pre-retirement is the unit leader, someone has just said, no one would dare say that he, even he was wrong, my husband not tell him. I said that he, and he was unhappy, with a straight face for me. My husband told me to let him. can no longer tolerate, and in-laws last week I had a fight. Her husband is a dutiful son, and of course to help them. My husband would also like to hit me, they did not stopped, I was holding the baby, they grab me. tell the truth, that night I and baby are terrified.
though after my husband and I apologize, I know you verbal abuse from the frame are relatively noisy, they are not my place. Although we are now reconciled, but my heart always fit, always feel that with time, there will be three times the second sequence. do not know how to do I understand her husband, dutiful son that he wanted to do her husband good father. he caught in the middle of a difficult position. can I do? Do I have to have tolerance for their baby? I get along with the how and in-laws to improve our relationship?
does not want the children and their angry, then a long point of ambition, their own kids, do not expect them to help, to move back to their nest, how you love bringing up children, but also keeps you in check. you or happiness to the ignorance, we do not know your mother is determined not to state a lot of work for the wife's? old willing to help, that is bad for you.
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5, female teachers aged 35 years husband 41,02 38 years old, I do not know how the case, her husband had no sexual function, and I do not care about care, and for which I am suffering. and his relationship is not very good, mainly affected by his mother, had considered divorce, see Too many single parents of affected children and their parents, the pain of losing is very small, so for the sake of their children did not leave, until now. pain I, I can only work hard, a few years ago comments on the senior professional titles and was admitted to Master of Education, and played on their own three-storey building. However, as long there is no sex life, I am very depressed very depressed, I look not ugly, she is not so bad, now more intellectual woman's temperament, but because of the the impact of education and career, not a presumptuous the like.
met on last year's gathering of friends and a man , chat up the habit and character that he is very fit me like him, and then had relations, after I was sorry. Slowly I fell in love with him, but he could not leave out with me. want to leave him, and have a strong sense of attachment, do not know how. kids this year high school, afraid of high school kids get to college examination. Divorce does not affect my life, my monthly income of more than 3,000, have their own housing.
sexless marriage there is shameful. but we country, shameful things are not necessarily the people rejected. because we encourage the constraints of traditional instincts and self-sacrifice for others. but I suggest, whether woman or man is not selfish as possible while pursuing the life you want.
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6, M 24. and his girlfriend finally determine the relationship twists and turns. I love the first time, you can get along with each other, they found he might be sex. I told her my problem, she said it does not matter. Keshun sister seems to have said, marriage is based on money and sex. If I can not give her sex, then this marriage will last it? her I do not want to regret later, how can I handle this?
I never said that to her normal men love sex marriage should be based mm love + of + money.
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7, look at your blog for some time, from which to understand a lot of things, the hymen can not easily give out. But I Now in a dilemma: My boyfriend, 87, 86, and contacts almost a year, are compatible. men are energetic young man, there will be requirements that respect, I refuse, to see him after the hard work for KJ, and total twice. But I am very upset, so do not, as long as the first time, fear will continue. Please advice.
best to call him Zimo it. grounds that he was cool you hell, not fair. avoidance individual alone in a room, avoid wearing too exciting to see him, and he spoke to avoid involving sexual content.
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8, 25 men and 23 women. good for one year. women than men graduated from a year earlier, M internship two together to play. men more mature and flexible, motivated filial assertive, good heavy family responsibility, do not smoke do not drink in the bar, when the company received nearly six-seven thousand, a good time A twenty thousand. just when we work together, said male and female good filial piety as the money is not heavy, and he said, and will not dislike me, have a child character. Women always want to break up with him on his relatively poor, but his stalker. women also see themselves a lot of his weaknesses. he received double the cause of love. women say that you have no money so you think I'm right for you. so you have money would not be thinking. I also said that the cause of your weight, you should look for ability of good to help you. He said that is different from person to person. And when he married his wealthy woman is not necessarily true. because of his poor parents, and two years younger, set to send money to his family, and said that he and I were out half of the down payment to buy a house house.
his reality. He seems to think that my family money. My mother and him about the down payment, and once he said the full amount you buy a good mother. He and his friend said he raised me, but I have a wage Yeah, although before 1500. He said to say is to make people think I'm happy. In fact, I was worried that he is not selfish, since I will not give up for the money.
still waiting for him to grow up and then of the marriage bar. but looks like you can not wait, another man would be better to discuss marriage.
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9, 41 undergraduate female teachers, no children, income January 3000, since the purchase of housing, there are deposits; men and 40 undergraduate, the boy in high school, a business unit, facing off; 10 years ago, two people know, not too many exchanges, women married after the divorce, and then meet is 6 years, the male that women experience considerable admiration care, often between women shelter, but also help introduce an object for women, because women do look down strike. maybe soon fell in love after 2 .2 people who push the boundaries from time to time living together for 2 years. male and his wife have been separated from state, economic distress, of divorce to his purification the household conditions. During pregnancy a woman, abortion, because men can not determine when to divorce, and divorced women may not feel married to him. Women think men and no major problems, there is no great hope, for so many years exchanges only buy daily necessities. But the man has a good character relations in addition to economic issues 2 and no other unpleasant. current stock losses tens of thousands of men, the money used to buy units off debt, pay card, take it to the wife and raise his son, he had nothing , Tian Han are the women to help buy a down jacket to wear. Women often want to break up, to be kind, but also because the time of swimming training with the understanding, to wait for him to pick up a trailer so far. Sometimes you pay a man enough to say that you spend, to be so What money, health is good. women felt ridiculous but also gas, and asked what to do?
to maintain the status quo. you can not stand too close to too far, might as well continue to live together from time to time. When you were a man points that drag you, then do the dubbing.
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10,27 for single women, a stable job. intimate encounter are women like the woman did not feel, and users feel they are not there would marry a woman. Maybe God is destined to marry a woman to love casually But they do not love their own end of life? fate may be so helpless now, not willing to own and wait for the man with their own sexual gratification. good understanding of remote edge Male A, each have a good impression. After meeting the temptation ML. But in different places, he could not marry a woman, it is impossible to help women in the physical aspects. Now he Although there is no girlfriend, but has to buy a house for renovation, it seems away from the wedding is near. women upset, will know when to shut the troubled. You just wake up cursing woman. also want to be here looking for a volunteer organization, women feel the real comfort of their own will be the purification of the mind thing in voluntary work. most hope I can help you, see you so busy, I really feel bad ~
help me people are not consulting me, so you can not help me for the time being in busy. Speaking of your friends that, people start playing and you play that, a loss of your own, not rely on others. women are not clear, it is easy to lose, now you just need to let yourself accept the reality, the other, are not want.
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11, I just graduated college student, now and together for four or five months living with her boyfriend of three years had. With the longer, I found many issues that we are not exposed as the total disregard for him to play the game I'm angry. He opened the first thing each day, play computer games, do not cook does not wash the dishes do not pick up, that is, play the game. I fought for this, he always felt that I could not rational explanation, the day after angry I cried in the living room more than an hour, regardless of whether he continues to play the game. I'm sad extreme, always feel this way not married, the marriage also how well I do not know how long he may be able to. We are gonna get married, and I know he loved me, and I can not do without him, may make this point I really do not know how to do, I do not know how to do can not do this fight? He also married a virtual certainty that we thing, I feel not as nurturing his feelings, and I was not the give him some pressure? how to do?
marriage will be more acute these problems, you will be more and greater conflict. want to change His play, it is difficult, unless threatening break. but if you do not really want to let him know points, he never really quit gaming.
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12, he led the company . unfortunate, confused I become his one-time items, he asked to continue, I should not (because he did not love me only sex). This is some of his work difficult for me, and I do not want to resign, which the company good, I did it more than three years, and how to face? is not a long time, he forgot to okay? me as nothing had happened? or deceive him, and said her husband had been aware that he is no way and asked him to look out for themselves? he if more difficult for me, I do but to resign? Now find a good job so hard.
tell him that you have sexually transmitted diseases, and is under treatment. now to find the source of infection, I hope he do a check, because you only sex with him and his men had.
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13, male 46, married 20 years Children 16. both work especially well, money and rank a room with two cars. marital relations can still, often small contradictions, a very tough battle when they fall in love, but now women busy with work and social occasions, not interested in sex. So know one or two dozen men and a girl. three years, close contacts are in love, the same certainly does not destroy the family. day be his wife found that noise a few days into the Cold War, has been more than a year. is not broken men and girls, can not work at home several times and good, his wife resolutely refused, and good, and everyone can not divorce the next determination. especially the woman is very good, real men are wife loves home. how to do?
and your wife are determined not good, it had firmly separated. Divorce is free, you are on your wife. although you love family love my wife, Unfortunately, you do something wrong, you have to pay for the wrong things.
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14, her boyfriend fell in love with a college girlfriend of four years ago, I heard a deep affection for the woman his family well, her boyfriend at home in rural areas, after graduation because of her boyfriend to the development of two separate places in Guangdong, the former girlfriend to marry someone else and had the BB. In recent years they have had contact, are very concerned about each other, visiting each other's QQ space, a message ridicule, but also often write about nostalgia the last topic, in particular, the current girlfriend that he now has me, a message is even more frequent, and they go back to back, see I'm so sad, I feel that woman look like a deliberate to me. boyfriend Before I talked to a girlfriend, if that is because it broke up, I said he, when he said nothing to her family, that I stirred quite wrapped around a blind, I do not know the woman have a wife and mother, and why This man is not all that new is not hi Yanjiu ah well depressed.
not tip, but also occupied, what we called greedy. your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend will be the case. as a man, your boyfriend certainly hope N women are more admiration for him. If you can not stand their dubious links, do not go to his room looked, and what time the development of two more men and spare tire, so her boyfriend a little sense of urgency, he had no thoughts and feelings of others to play his wife scolded Qiao was.
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15, girlfriend of rural I cities. cohabiting year, anxious to marry his girlfriend. condition that the parents house to change my name after the registration, the second twenty thousand bride price to her parents. I think house parents, married his girlfriend live in his house that practical. I am not much savings, the bride price to the marriage to have no money, her marriage has all my money, she could not tell. I said, thinking of her small farmers, she said I despise her. peacetime often fight for the money, I would have to earn less, she's paying the money he spent, not the public. She and I are not the same thoughts, opinions differ, I think the environment. are what society, and also the bride price? I let her put her savings to her parents, the bride price for her filial piety, she did not agree. I think she is vain, if I feel poor, you can choose someone else, I had no money to this day. She more care about the money, the more alienated I told her I think she is not what I want, so I do not want to get married. I hope the break up, but she is not happy, cry and kick. I am now married to hard, breaking up is difficult. I hope you find a balanced approach, or give me a reason to compromise.
told her that if I had not the bride price was 20,000, and she did not marry marry? not marry better, you can immediately find it's not a penny bride price . the house to tell her the problem more clear: even if your name change, it is your marital property, once you divorce her, she was a brick should not.
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16, female 25 Male 29. love nearly four years, no two parties parents, colleagues 2 years. men in women in a large private company. they have the same values, conscientious work, won the boss appreciated. bosses and colleagues are also optimistic about the support us. one year after a relationship, women are the first time, men are not. Female another development, job-hopping to other companies. During a miscarriage, for which infected gynecological diseases. during break up five times. skelter. two belong to a prefecture-level city, but a large difference between the economic level, general family man, the woman had told the family mentioned, family members do not agree, saying that if married men and women be subject to a joke, her parents always wanted women to find a better family conditions. As family members do not agree, by the feelings go underground.
women love men, hoping to identify the feelings down, men dragged two years. the woman's mental and physical exhaustion, thinking, a little unhappy, put talks about breaking up. Last year financial crisis, unhappy women work, together with gynecological diseases need drugs, they live together for six months. cohabitation period, the women just want to keep the male side, has not been out of work. male business was flourishing, travel often, to women a strong sense of insecurity. very bad temper, disputes continued. Women want to get married, male annual salary of 10 million, has enough strength of a showdown with the women at home. men finally said fifth day of both parents to visit women at home. The results did not go. Spring Fall in love with my female colleagues found that men . Women have to let go, and especially can not be reconciled. male very good, motivated, good to be female, thoughtful me. how face so fast, how women now face life?
fate done, even if you have done for him many sacrifices, but now the problem is he does not love you, then you do not want to wish you were married. Nianqing your losses, do not badger down, so bogged down.
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17, discovered her husband was having an affair in August 2008, a fight, and then out with a woman he dated after renters .2 and persuade their parents, he went home. A week after leaving home, with the woman moved to another rental place live the New Year did not go home. because the mother contacted the woman called her husband, he felt his family very face, so he did not even visit their parents, to me it is indifferent, the family hit phone will not receive, messages do not return, his mother scolded the woman continued to send text messages, without any results. Now, I mentioned divorce, he not leave. I do not want to say that not because the house is divided? He said yes, I said, this case that to go home to live. but he is not back, how can I do? We do not have children, get married just 2 years, going to 08 children, who subsequently left home, we love to love 10 years of marriage, can After he left home never take the initiative to contact me again. disappointed ah.
sued for divorce. seek leave him naked.
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18, I am facing the problem of employment, lover like me, he home conditions are not perfect, but also a single parent, my family are not satisfied with him, and resolutely oppose, always said he could not afford me! that I do not dare to go against the meaning of family. In the face employment pressure is very tired and did not know this feelings still be able to keep going? feel good lost, I do not want to give up this love, he told me really good, how can I do? Hao Fan. The thought that a long time as long as the family always accepted, could the family every day to brainwash me, and even introduced me to help. cause feelings of a mess! how can I do? I would like to say the cause of the feelings out, but that simply is difficult to do.
feelings aside in advance, are to find work. He got a job with prospects, how can you stop your family?
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19, female 27, Beijing, character, good temperament, her boyfriend of 38 Taiwanese, divorced no children, know when he started his own business economic conditions, better than my home, love one and a half, he was my first boyfriend was the first man. He was very stable, good character, mentality, my caring, most of the time interval between the two places are not together, little commitment, commitment will be fulfilled, every time he came to Beijing to see me, stay in a hotel, you can see nothing but add up to a year in January, so do not spend any money for me, I did not have asked, not sweet, but almost every night would call with me until I fell asleep. Friends are not optimistic about our family did not approach. our feelings are very quiet and stable, self-awareness so when. He said that two years will not get married, he wanted it for the future 2 hard on a good plan, or he comes or I go.
after a relationship I can not do without him, he told me was in the past, the total blame should be better he is, he said, would I have the same This is his personality, not ups and downs. I know he has been working, so understanding, but does not always meet another grievance, after all he is the first man I like this the first feelings of sexual love is true only Love it? normal up our relationship?
2 years, the commitment of marriage is not easy to achieve, but after 2 years you are 30, and then if he do not want you, and suddenly stopped, you supposed to? and you understanding of his faith came from and he said, no one is your proven, they still do not put yourself to only charge the same bet on him.
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20, to be exact I was a three- They married 6 years with a 5-year-old daughter, also uttered a few times before from all to nothing, and now perhaps because of my appearance, they do the procedure. But his ex-wife did not know I exist, divorce has been half a year. This She has also been time to contact him, to make up right, he can not stand. He treated me very well, and we like each other, but I am worried that we triple hh company, working in different areas, so now our relationship can not be made public. Also owned by his daughter, his ex-wife does not bear any support available. us revenue in general, his parents are simple farmers, no savings, and my family knows about our relationship, are not in favor. I more than 2000 kilometers away from the house with him together can not see tomorrow, because of economic conditions and family conditions. I also want children of their own, and I love him, because he did it all for me, I can not help but think that with him.
gave people get involved scattered, but also keep up someone hesitated, the man no credit can be bad.
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21, my husband, 28, 38, married for three years-old children. My husband is very specific to me, children very well. But income is not high, not buy their own homes, so we live with her in-laws. I get along with her mother is unhappy, she is extremely talkative, and what their views should be added, as if well-read look, very annoying. I graduate grades in school, very good, also quite consciously clever, aggressive, strong heart, No matter what always wanted to get in the circle first, it is valued ability, income, etc., always with the students than my colleagues , and some students better than them marry well with high income, is not too happy.
07 year due to pregnant children, her husband said it wanted to, urged me to quit her fetus, I agree, and home birth child, late last year looking for work, found himself separated from the outside world for 2 years, can not keep up the capacity of understanding, coupled with the economic downturn, job income and much lower than before treatment. psychology is very uneven, temper, frustration, and often quarreled with the LG, he advised me to quit complaining, ruined my career. mother is conscious intellectuals, do not want to take their children, my own children to access the Internet to vote with a resume, learning to learn, and found some old time knowledge no. I was very depressed, often crying, like a particularly gray, has a few smiles. Wang Shun Shun unlock solution able to open my sister. what is the cause of an important woman, or family important?
may be affected by this mood, Last July I love come to my city on business, about to meet me. We as a sophomore at the development of feelings, but we are in different cities to college, only through letters and telephone contacts, I felt he told me aloof, and indeed less than one years, he and his open relationship with the school girls, and I even like the spirit are far worse, it hurts my heart. I think the feelings of being cheated, disappeared in his world. until last July meeting, he told me tearfully that How fickle girlfriend, how many times with the number of a man, who ran her left behind, and came back to him. I heard it hurts. Since then, he will always be made in the QQ sweet to me, they always call me to chat , thought that wants to help him through this empty lonely day, knows his slumped.
he put more and more requirements, Valentine said that we should do, saying that it needs me, I'll reply to his let him have sex, then sexual fantasies. He would also like sexy pictures I took to him, to comfort the lonely, I promise to return home after his ML. He also sent his nude photo to me. I worry, do not want to agree, he used call me hard to hear. After a period of time, he said he paid a new girlfriend, I know that even after the sad heart, I feel cheated again, I do not know why they feel this way, I am worried that his new girlfriend again He is not good, his mind perhaps daydreams always romantic with his girlfriend happy. Shun Shun sister, how can I get out this gloomy mood? I do not want to go on like this, I just want a little brighter, why everything unhappy? < br> long, and did not answer.
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